Hey, hey my traveling divas and dudes! I have decided to make myself more available to dating while traveling. It’s so easy to get caught up in enjoying your alone time while traveling and not having to deal with all the dating BS! But, hey it’s a part of the game. You will kiss a few ugly frogs before you find that decent prince…it’s unrealistic to want the perfect Prince Charming lol. This is real life! However… that special someone will feel like your prince charming, just perfect for you!
With that being said, I’m kind of in the process of kissing the frogs! But gotta’ love the fat, slimy, ugly frogs, they prep you to spot the red flags of a man you should steer clear of. That man that I am speaking of is the parasitic man.
Well lets start off with the definition of a parasite. A parasite is an organism that lives in or on another (its host) and benefits by deriving nutrients at the host’s expense. So what I’m saying is that loser of a man you’re dealing with is the parasite and yep you guessed correctly, you are the host that he is deriving of its nutrients. The definition of a parasite goes on to say, parasites increase their fitness by exploiting hosts for resources necessary for their survival, food, water, heat, and habitat. He’s deriving you of your mental, spiritual, and physical nutrients.
We have all encountered some form of a parasitic man. But, I’m here to forewarn you of his parasitic ways. Ladies, we have places to be and things to do; not waste our precious time on men that drain us of our happiness. These are men who trick you into believing that they actually want something real with you. But the reality is, they’re just looking for a host to feed their egos, mooch off of, and oh these parasites love free sex with no responsibilities. They may be good looking, successful, intelligent, and can talk a good game but after all these superficial attributes, they are simply nothing but spiritually empty vessels and they need you to help them to survive. These men are so insecure and broken on the inside they’ll have you to believe that they have it all together and want something real with you. They lie, cheat, have little to no integrity, are narcissistic, they are selfish and driven purely by ego. This parasite is all about self, all it cares about is its own survival; not you or anyone else! But please beware of the worst kind of parasite the one that is emotionally draining. They tell you whatever it takes to keep you as their host. I love the parasitic men that pretend they are protecting themselves emotionally and are afraid to open up to you. They are supposedly emotionally withdrawn from a past relationship or from something that was traumatizing during their childhood…”boo hoohoo I’m so hurt inside”. This is a parasite at its finest, they’ll have you sitting around waiting and believing that you will be the one to help build him up emotionally. You’ll actually begin to believe that there is hope for you after all…maybe a healthy relationship will come of it. Nope… he’ll just continue to suck the life out of you as he feeds his ego and you will be completely depleted mentally, spiritually, emotionally and also unavailable to a man that is worthy of your time.
But not to worry ladies, you have to remember that you are the host, you are the stronger being! Parasites can not survive without a host. You have to make a decision…who do you love more? The person that you look at in the mirror everyday or that parasite. The parasite that continues to lie to you, may call or text when he needs or wants something, uses you for sex, and is disrespectful. You’ll never get all of his time, he’s too busy trying to find several other hosts to survive off of too! He doesn’t want a healthy relationship with you. How can a man who is not stable or emotionally available have a healthy relationship with anyone. It’s not hard to figure out if you’re dealing with a parasitic man, trust me whomever crossed your mind as you read this article…please believe that is your parasite! Do yourself a favor, get rid of that life sucking disease quickly! If a man only brings you grief and leaves you joyless, he is a parasite. Get that parasite off of you, so that you can be emotionally healthy and available for real love! I have to remind myself of this daily, when we waste our time with useless parasitic men we are only prolonging the time for the right one to come. Have you dealt with a parasitic man or woman? As always thanks for reading and don’t forget to drop that loser lol!